One of the things that might be helpful is to work on being angry. You don't have to start a riot, but the next time something makes you feel bad about body hair, even if it's just a random thought that floats through your mind, make a conscious effort to think, "This is wrong. Body hair is natural and beautiful, like any other part of a healthy human body. Anyone who says differently, or encourages others to say so, is perpetuating a cruel cycle."
["perpetuating a cruel cycle!" oh...izagonna use that one.]