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Old February 24th, 2014 #1
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Your husband doesn’t have to earn your respect

Posted on February 22, 2014 by The Matt Walsh Blog

I can’t tell you where I was or who was there or when it happened. I don’t want to add to this guy’s humiliation, so I am keeping this vague and generic. I can simply tell you that, some time ago, I found myself in the same vicinity as another married couple.

I certainly can’t read their minds, and I don’t know what goes on behind the scenes, all I know is that the husband couldn’t seem to utter a single phrase that wouldn’t provoke exaggerated eye-rolling from his wife.

She disagreed with everything he said.

She contradicted nearly every statement.

She even nagged him.

She brought up a “funny” story that made him out to be incompetent and foolish. He laughed, but he was embarrassed.

She was gutting him right in front of us. Emasculating him. Neutering him. Damaging him.

It was excruciating.

It was tragic.

It also was, or is becoming, pretty par-for-the-course.

The respect deficiency in our culture has reached crisis levels.

It's not a respect deficiency, it's the social counterpart to the feminist legal milieu. Men are always portrayed as inferior to their wives on tv, and this has become middle-class normal.

I’ve discussed at length how men should treat women. I’ve written about the lessons I plan to teach my son; lessons about how he should love, honor, respect, serve, and protect the women in his life. Indeed, men need to respect women, and we, as men, are far from perfect in that regard.

Those posts — the ones where I call on us men to improve the way we treat women — tend to be very popular. They’re popular when I write them or when anyone writes them. Proclaim that women, mothers, and wives should be respected, and a chorus will shout ‘amen.’ Every day on Facebook brings us another viral post excoriating men and supporting women. I’ve written a few of them myself.

But I’ve noticed that the corollary – a message about the respect women must give men, a message challenging wives and encouraging husbands – isn’t quite so palatable for many people. Disrespect for men has become standard practice. That scene I witnessed was sad but unremarkable; we’ve all watched that kind of thing play out a thousand times over. Men are disrespected by their wives – they’re disrespected publicly, they’re disrespected privately, they’re disrespected and then told that they have no right to be upset about it because they aren’t worthy of respect in the first place.

Disrespect for men is a joke to us now. A little while ago I stopped on the way home from work to buy my wife some flowers. As she rang me up, the cashier quipped: “Uh-oh, what’d you do?” I wasn’t particularly amused, but I chuckled. She continued. “I don’t know if this will be enough to get you off the couch tonight!”

Ah, yes, the old “husband is punished by his wife and sent to the couch” meme. I’m not sure if this actually happens in real life, or if it’s an invention of 90′s “all men are fat, witless, oafs” sitcoms, but the popularity of the stereotype is telling. Is this how we see husbands now? A man gets “in trouble” with his wife, she scolds him and puts him in time-out on the couch. Now he has to placate his alpha-bride by showering her with flowers and jewelry.

Yeah, that is how men are seen now. Yes.

Men are painted like children or dogs. They can be shooed off of their own beds by their wives and sent to cower in the living room until she permits him to return. This is only slightly less offensive than the cliché of the sadistic wife who punitively withholds sex from her husband. “You didn’t clean the garage like I told you. No sex for you, mister! Next time, follow my instructions!”

Did you ever see this Samsung ad from several months ago?


A worthless, grunting, Neanderthal of a husband instantly “evolves” when his wife plugs a contraption into his back. The ad caused a slight dust up when they released it, but nothing — NOTHING — like it would have if the husband and wife had switched roles in this charming piece of viral marketing.

But with men on the receiving end, a few people complained, some angry Youtube comments were posted, Samsung sales were unscathed, and everyone quickly moved on with their lives.

That’s because disrespect for men isn’t exactly a trendy outrage.

These cultural messages aren’t harmful because they hurt my manly feelings; they’re harmful because of what they do to young girls. Society tells our daughters that men are boorish dolts who need to be herded like goats and lectured like school boys. Then they grow up and enter into marriage wholly unprepared and unwilling to accept the Biblical notion that “wives should submit to their husbands” because “the husband is the head of the wife.” [Ephesians 5]

It is a fatal problem, because the one thing that is consistently withheld from men and husbands — respect — is the one thing we need the most.

Yes, need. We need respect, and that need is so deeply ingrained that a marriage cannot possibly survive if the man is deprived of it.

Often, people will say that a husband should only be respected if he “earns” it. This attitude is precisely the problem. A wife ought to respect her husband because he is her husband, just as he ought to love and honor her because she is his wife. Your husband might “deserve” it when you mock him, berate him, belittle him, and nag him, but you don’t marry someone in order to give them what they deserve. In marriage, you give them what you’ve promised them, even when they aren’t holding up their end of the bargain.

This doesn’t mean that a man has a license to be lazy, or abusive, or uncaring. He is challenged to live up to the respect his wife affords him. If his wife parcels out her respect on some sort of reward system basis, the husband has nothing for which to strive. As the respect diminishes, so too does his motivation to behave respectably. Respect is wielded like a ransom against him, and he grows more isolated and distant all the while.

They both swirl in circles around the drain. He fails, so she gives him no respect, and then he continues to fail because he feels disrespected, and she continues to give him no respect because he continues to fail. And so on, and so on, and so on, all the way to the divorce attorney.

The same thing happens with love. If love is unconditional, then the light of love always shines in your marriage, even in its darkest times. But if your love is given in direct proportion to your spouse’s ability to “earn” it, then it will inevitably diminish and fade over time.

Love in a marriage is, as people often point out, a choice. But it’s also a duty. So is respect. I love my wife because I choose to love her. I choose to love her because that is the vow I made; it is my charge, my warrant. Luckily, it’s usually pretty easy to love my wife because she’s kind, warmhearted, and beautiful. But if she becomes less kind, and I withdraw my love because of it, then my love was never love to begin with. It was just a pleasant feeling; a natural response to her nicer tendencies.

This is not to say that women should tolerate a man who fails in his duties, but that her intolerance for his failures can only be constructive if it is rooted in respect. Sadly, many women will approach their husbands and say: “You need to stop doing such and such or start doing such and such, because you’re a failure and I don’t respect you.”

She might not explicitly state this, but it is the message she implicitly sends. There is zero chance that this message will help to heal the damage; it only plunges another dagger into the already gaping wound.

A few months ago I wrote a post about pornography. I stand by every word I typed, but I feel like I could add another couple thousand sentences to the end of it. Ever since I published that piece, I have heard from hundreds and hundreds of men and women on both sides of the porn problem.

Men emailed to tell me that they developed a porn habit and it did great damage to their marriage. But they told me that they resorted to porn after years of being disrespected, shunned and belittled by their wives. They weren’t making an excuse — only offering some perspective and context.

And hundreds of women told me that their husbands developed a porn habit and it caused them to lose all respect for them. This inability to respect their husbands nearly, or in some cases completely, wrecked their marriage.

A vicious cycle. The men didn’t want to fight for a marriage if they weren’t respected, and the women didn’t want to respect men who wouldn’t fight for their marriage. He withholds his love, she withholds her respect. They’ve both set fire to the thing that needs to be fixed.

Respect is our language. If it isn’t said with respect, we can’t hear it. This is why nagging is ineffective and self defeating. This is why statements made in sarcastic tones, or with rolling eyes, will never be received well. We have a filter in our brains, and a statement made in disrespect will be filtered out like the poison it is.

Men are notoriously reluctant to share feelings or display vulnerability. Many times, we keep those inner thoughts locked away — our feelings guarded and hidden — because we know we are not respected. A man will never be vulnerable to someone who doesn’t respect him. Never.

A man isn’t satisfied or content if he isn’t respected. If he can’t find respect where he is, he will seek it somewhere else. This can have disastrous implications for a relationship, but it applies in other areas of life as well. A man is much more likely to stay in a low paying job, a physically demanding job, a dangerous job, or a tedious job, than a job where he isn’t respected.

I’m only emphasizing this because I think it might actually be news to some people. Society does not permit men to be vocal about their need for respect, so the need is often ignored.

I could sit here all day adding “yes, but husbands also need to…” disclaimers. I won’t, because I’ve probably written a dozen or more times on that subject. Every once in a while, I think we should talk about what wives need to do. And here it is. This, above all else. Respect your husbands. Even when he doesn’t deserve it.

You shouldn't write disclaimers, it's a weakness. Let these people have a straight knock in the jaw for once in their life.

http://themattwalshblog.com/2014/02/...-your-respect/
 
Old February 24th, 2014 #2
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Its very hard for I to give input on this subject, I'm not married nor never had been. I don't know how men actually think or behave in long term committed relationships. Best for married men and married women to respond, but I like to say my two cents.

It seems men and women, prior to 1950's, respected each other automatically. They knew their place and everything just click. Modern feminism, i believe, helped destroy the bond and family unit between white men and white women. Both sexes are screwed in the head. Exception of rightwing men and women of cause.

Example: My both sets of grandparents were married and in love until they past away. My parents are still happily married (normal fights included) These young married couples of today are helpless, the divorce rate is extremely high.

Hollywood personals do not help the image neither by swaping to new partners every few months or a year.

There is no respect from either sex.
 
Old February 24th, 2014 #3
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Its very hard for I to give input on this subject, I'm not married nor never had been. I don't know how men actually think or behave in long term committed relationships. Best for married men and married women to respond, but I like to say my two cents.

It seems men and women, prior to 1950's, respected each other automatically. They knew their place and everything just click. Modern feminism, i believe, helped destroy the bond and family unit between white men and white women. Both sexes are screwed in the head. Exception of rightwing men and women of cause.

Example: My both sets of grandparents were married and in love until they past away. My parents are still happily married (normal fights included) These young married couples of today are helpless, the divorce rate is extremely high.

Hollywood personals do not help the image neither by swaping to new partners every few months or a year.

There is no respect from either sex.
The legal milieu has changed. Now people have to act like free agents, since divorce is easy to obtain. They become self-protective, necessarily. Their mindset is always "what's in it for me?" They always feel they're not getting what they deserve. It's very hard to make a successful commitment from people who think like this.

Notice this piece has nearly 1200 comments! Walsh is a bit of name, but this clearly reverberates with people.
 
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Its very hard for I to give input on this subject, I'm not married nor never had been. I don't know how men actually think or behave in long term committed relationships. Best for married men and married women to respond, but I like to say my two cents.

It seems men and women, prior to 1950's, respected each other automatically. They knew their place and everything just click. Modern feminism, i believe, helped destroy the bond and family unit between white men and white women. Both sexes are screwed in the head. Exception of rightwing men and women of cause.

Example: My both sets of grandparents were married and in love until they past away. My parents are still happily married (normal fights included) These young married couples of today are helpless, the divorce rate is extremely high.

Hollywood personals do not help the image neither by swaping to new partners every few months or a year.

There is no respect from either sex.
Today, women especially and people generally have an exaggerated opinion of their own worth. In the old days, people just married people who lived nearby because they didn't have cars to cruise around everywhere. I mean in the 1920s, not just 1500. Today is a radically different time, there are so many options that people don't ever want to foreclose anything. Commitment is very much against the spirit of the times, yet necessary for most things to achieve their full potential.
 
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Women do differently ask for too much from men these days. Most women never asked for this, we can't solely put the blame on women. Note: the zog government I'd blame (feminism)

Getting to your point of less traveling- Back in time (1900 1920's) most women married men that knew her parents. Well respected by both families, the couples were meant to be.
 
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I read this piece by Walsh the other day and basically agree with what he has to say.

The world is much different now than in the 1950's and it's not going to revert back to the way things were. As a female, I can see how we've become less respectful toward men and even tearing them down. Men used to be the "bread winners" of the family and kept their wife and children warm and comfy at home. Women were in charge of the house and the raising of the children which is a righteous endeavor all on its own. A middle class family could thrive with only one adult working full time and the other at home, but this is no longer the case. Women can no longer stay at home and spend all day doing laundry, shopping, cooking, baking, house chores, and raising little ones while being barefoot and pregnant. No, she has to put on her suit or uniform and head out the door to work a stressful full time job, then come home and still feed her family, spend time with them, do the chores, and find the time to stroke her husband's ego.

A woman's place in life has changed and she's acquired the role as "bread-winner" along with her other duties as a wife and mother, and yet a man's task has not changed at all. I don't think women have purposely disrespected men, but in a world where women can no longer depend on men to carry the burden that they were originally dealt, a tense relationship between sexes is created.

If you would ask most women if they were interested in going to work or being at home nursing their babies, they would probably choose the latter. It's our instinct to be mothers first. Of course nowadays, women are given guff for not returning to work a few weeks after the baby arrives, or darling husband resents his wife staying at home. The world is a screwed up place and money has torn apart the family.

If you have a wife at home, she's working full time, raising babes is no easy task. If your wife has a career and a family, she's working round the clock and probably a bitch because she has zero time to herself and has the weight of the world on her back, that is where the snarky disrespectful comments come in to play unfortunately.
 
Old February 25th, 2014 #7
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Women do differently ask for too much from men these days. Most women never asked for this, we can't solely put the blame on women. Note: the zog government I'd blame (feminism)
You can't blame a government for something that the people have allowed the government or banking systems to control. The people to blame are easily found by looking into a mirror.

Women do not ask for too much, in fact, they need to ask their men to stand the hell up and fight for the family! We lack the men with big enough balls to take action. May the gods help us if women end up starting a revolution, but rest assured it would approximately seven days to terrorize or enemies and bring them to their knees
 
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[one of the 1200 comments - the church promotes the same message the jewsmedia does]

Rick says:
February 24, 2014 at 7:07 pm

I have been on this soapbox for years. This even happens in the church. A perfect example is mothers day vs. fathers day sermons. MD sermons are usually filled with praise and admiration while FD sermons are usually filled with admonition and exhortation. Just once I would like to see a FD sermon where it honors the fathers and showers them with praise and adoration the way we do the mothers.

[see...the average unreflective person gets the same message from his tv, his textbook, his television and his church...what do you expect him to think?]
 
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[one of the 1200 comments - the church promotes the same message the jewsmedia does]

[see...the average unreflective person gets the same message from his tv, his textbook, his television and his church...what do you expect him to think?]
I hate to sound like a feminist here, but honestly - a lot of women hold down a full time job, manage the household, and raise the kids as well as carting them around. Fathers work full time, but there are few out there that take on the home/kids responsibilities .....

Maybe men need to start speaking up and fixing these issues instead of complaining about them as faceless internet commentators.
 
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I hate to sound like a feminist here, but honestly - a lot of women hold down a full time job, manage the household, and raise the kids as well as carting them around. Fathers work full time, but there are few out there that take on the home/kids responsibilities .....

Maybe men need to start speaking up and fixing these issues instead of complaining about them as faceless internet commentators.
Part of that is that fathers take a different approach to parenting.

When I was a kid, if I said to my mother 'Mom, I'm hungry' her response would be 'what would you like to eat?' That's the motherly nurturing way.

If I said to my father, 'Dad, I'm hungry', he would have said, 'the fridge is in the kitchen'.

Now, that might look like he is too lazy to take care of his kids, and when I was a kid that's what I thought. But if you asked him he would say he was teaching me to take care of myself. Now that I'm a father myself, I get it.

Edit: He actually can cook, and would make dinner from time to time, mainly if it was something he wanted to eat. And if I didn't like it, he would say, 'when you make dinner, you can make it any way you like'.
 
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Part of that is that fathers take a different approach to parenting.

When I was a kid, if I said to my mother 'Mom, I'm hungry' her response would be 'what would you like to eat?' That's the motherly nurturing way.

If I said to my father, 'Dad, I'm hungry', he would have said, 'the fridge is in the kitchen'.

Now, that might look like he is too lazy to take care of his kids, and when I was a kid that's what I thought. But if you asked him he would say he was teaching me to take care of myself. Now that I'm a father myself, I get it.

Edit: He actually can cook, and would make dinner from time to time, mainly if it was something he wanted to eat. And if I didn't like it, he would say, 'when you make dinner, you can make it any way you like'.
I don't think that is lazy parenting, but I never went to any male figure asking for food. In fact I knew not to ask anyone for food, except my grandma. Mom came home and would make dinner, step-dad would park his ass in front of the television and read the paper. We would eat at the table, then help mom with washing up, while step-dad would go tinker with whatever in the garage. It was always the same, the man would work all day and mom would too, except she still had the responsibilities of caring for children and home. This happens all too often.
 
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Posted on February 22, 2014 by The Matt Walsh Blog

I can’t tell you where I was or who was there or when it happened. I don’t want to add to this guy’s humiliation, so I am keeping this vague and generic. I can simply tell you that, some time ago, I found myself in the same vicinity as another married couple.

I certainly can’t read their minds, and I don’t know what goes on behind the scenes, all I know is that the husband couldn’t seem to utter a single phrase that wouldn’t provoke exaggerated eye-rolling from his wife.

She disagreed with everything he said.

She contradicted nearly every statement.

She even nagged him.

She brought up a “funny” story that made him out to be incompetent and foolish. He laughed, but he was embarrassed.

She was gutting him right in front of us. Emasculating him. Neutering him. Damaging him.

It was excruciating.

It was tragic.

It also was, or is becoming, pretty par-for-the-course.

The respect deficiency in our culture has reached crisis levels.
I think men are partly at fault on how women treat them. I have noticed that American men specifically are the ones that seem weak and feminized. Take this in account the fact that I have traveled overseas and have encountered very masculine men who would not be seen dead with a woman like that. Adding that the fact I am in a formal relationship with a Russian/American man I can tell you if I ever acted that way he would shut me off. That is worse than someone calling a woman a derogatory term or physically abusing her. This is because when he gets silent I don't know what is in his head. Thankfully that never happened in our relationship but he has told me that he acted that way to his former girlfriend and then dumped her.

I love my boyfriend and I think one of the biggest demonstration of care and love towards the other person is respect. Apart from cooking,cleaning and washing his clothes. When there is no respect then love is gone.

I think this has to do with our society. For example today at college I have encountered the typical football loving white men giving high five to each other and complimenting each other on their looks. Laughing like little girls during class time. Women who have encountered real masculine men overseas would see that as completely unattractive.
 
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You can't blame a government for something that the people have allowed the government or banking systems to control. The people to blame are easily found by looking into a mirror.

Women do not ask for too much, in fact, they need to ask their men to stand the hell up and fight for the family! We lack the men with big enough balls to take action. May the gods help us if women end up starting a revolution, but rest assured it would approximately seven days to terrorize or enemies and bring them to their knees
Sorry for missing your response missy.

I never wished for this power we women have today; I'm trying to figure out how to get rid of it. Women never asked for feminsm but once women got it, they took it and ran with it, like homosexuals did with gay rights.

Those men with guts and glory died out when germany lost WWII. We are lacking men in this field. So yeah, good point you've made.
 
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Sorry for missing your response missy.

I never wished for this power we women have today; I'm trying to figure out how to get rid of it. Women never asked for feminsm but once women got it, they took it and ran with it, like homosexuals did with gay rights.

Those men with guts and glory died out when germany lost WWII. We are lacking men in this field. So yeah, good point you've made.
The last time someone referred to me as "missy", well, I think I was 5 years old.

Having to work a full time job and still play the role of mother and wife is not feminism, but it's the only way that most families can survive now. A two income household to make up for the inflated prices everywhere.

I've seen the way that families with one working adult, living as frugal as possible. Usually given some kind of state aid because they can't afford to pay for health insurance or put food in their children's mouths. It's not fun.

The Germans weren't the only men with guts and glory, many good men on both sides of the pond died. My grandfather served and faced the pain and death of war everyday. The horror of war is something that we are lucky we've not had to confront face to face.

Men need leaders too, they won't just band together for no reason, and they need strong and intelligent women behind them to support their efforts and be able to be independent without them. That's not feminism, that's being a good woman.
 
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I think men are partly at fault on how women treat them. I have noticed that American men specifically are the ones that seem weak and feminized. Take this in account the fact that I have traveled overseas and have encountered very masculine men who would not be seen dead with a woman like that. Adding that the fact I am in a formal relationship with a Russian/American man I can tell you if I ever acted that way he would shut me off. That is worse than someone calling a woman a derogatory term or physically abusing her. This is because when he gets silent I don't know what is in his head. Thankfully that never happened in our relationship but he has told me that he acted that way to his former girlfriend and then dumped her.

I love my boyfriend and I think one of the biggest demonstration of care and love towards the other person is respect. Apart from cooking,cleaning and washing his clothes. When there is no respect then love is gone.

I think this has to do with our society. For example today at college I have encountered the typical football loving white men giving high five to each other and complimenting each other on their looks. Laughing like little girls during class time. Women who have encountered real masculine men overseas would see that as completely unattractive.
It's not just American men, it's everywhere. Almost all men like sports, it is part of their nature to be competitive, and I would say men who weren't interested in sports would be more of the feminine type. A group of males laughing and being buddy buddy talking about sports and high-fiving each other? That's the typical testosterone filled male when he's surrounded by other males. It's what they do.

I was in a relationship that sounds somewhat similar to what you're saying you have... I did all of the washing, cleaning, ironing, cooking, but if I even put a tiny toe out of line or said anything that struck him the wrong way... Silence. That's not love, respect, or healthy. Couples need to be able to respect each other enough to share their tasks, thoughts, and emotions.

It's never fun being with a man who you can't relax around.
 
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Having to work a full time job and still play the role of mother and wife is not feminism, but it's the only way that most families can survive now. A two income household to make up for the inflated prices everywhere.

Ok miss

This way of life was caused by feminism, right? before WWII, families lived off their fathers/husbands wage only, the lady of house took care of the children, and home. Until feminism came along. Mainly because our corrupt government wished for women to join the mans world and visa versa man joining the women's world.

Right. I also had granddads that fought for the jews in both wars like your American grand fathers. Yes they were great fighters, brave men. Its a pity they were used by Roosevelt and Churchill.

Ps- not just intelligent women.

Many men in real life always picks image over intelligence, Ive been there before. Of cause men go for the complete package of great look image and intelligence first, but thats how men are.
 
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Having to work a full time job and still play the role of mother and wife is not feminism, but it's the only way that most families can survive now. A two income household to make up for the inflated prices everywhere.

Ok miss

This way of life was caused by feminism, right? before WWII, families lived off their fathers/husbands wage only, the lady of house took care of the children, and home. Until feminism came along. Mainly because our corrupt government wished for women to join the mans world and visa versa man joining the women's world.

Right. I also had granddads that fought for the jews in both wars like your American grand fathers. Yes they were great fighters, brave men. Its a pity they were used by Roosevelt and Churchill.

Ps- not just intelligent women.

Many men in real life always picks image over intelligence, Ive been there before. Of cause men go for the complete package of great look image and intelligence first, but thats how men are.
Well dear,

It's not as simple as saying that feminism caused this in to happen or blame any type of person/group/era for creating feminism. Would you call women like Queen Elizabeth I, Joan of Arc, or even Cleopatra feminists? Because they were strong females who took initiative? You could consider the fact that you drive a car, going to college, or opening a business as an act of feminism. Our sex does not bind us to certain qualities or roles, but our individual character does. Our sex does hinder us from certain capabilities such as heavy labor, military, etc. from lack of muscle and emotional control. The plight of the economy is not solely based on the "idea" of feminism.

I hear all of this jabber about the "jews, jews, jews, jews, jews" - It's all of their fault. Cry Cry Cry. It's not the jews turning on your television, a jew doesn't sit behind you and make you watch it, make you feed your children GMO crap, or make you go out and blow all of your money on useless nonsense.

No more whining and complaining about the JEW, it's so childish to point and wag fingers. If you have a problem, do something about it, and don't just play the blame game or find the closest issue to social deconstruction and complain about it.

As a society, we've lost our scruples and our souls to the almighty dollar. I'm not going to blame that on anyone, we put ourselves here, but I'm going to make a change starting with myself - as every other person should do.

Oh, and men have to find women that are desirable to them and what they find pleasing in a woman, just as much as a woman does. Otherwise it will end badly, two people have to attract and remain attractive by being who they are, not who someone wants them to be. We don't all like to play charades.
 
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make you feed your children GMO crap

Do you go out and shop at the local farmers market and buy produce, meats, dairy from the local White farmers who made it all on their own, and are most likely conservative? Who absolutely hate what the Gov't does with the farmers' subsidies, driving up prices and hurting the traditional farmer's property values?
 
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It's not as simple as saying that feminism caused this in to happen or blame any type of person/group/era for creating feminism. Would you call women like Queen Elizabeth I, Joan of Arc, or even Cleopatra feminists? Because they were strong females who took initiative? You could consider the fact that you drive a car, going to college, or opening a business as an act of feminism. Our sex does not bind us to certain qualities or roles, but our individual character does. Our sex does hinder us from certain capabilities such as heavy labor, military, etc. from lack of muscle and emotional control. The plight of the economy is not solely based on the "idea" of feminism.
Well, 2 of those examples you gave were born queens, so that's not really an indicator of strength. Sure, you can find an odd woman in every time who was influential, but the fact is you'd have to look pretty damn hard for examples. I feel it's more like trying to find black inventors.

A part of feminism is to deny the impact of biology on women's characters, even partially. Women participating in the labour force, education, them emulating men (which they're not very good at) generally strengthened feminism, along with some other very bad consequences for the white race. Feminism is an evolution like civil rights, or Marxism, a Judeo-Christian product: it has turned women into some sort of protected group which needs big gubbmint in order to survive reality.

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I hear all of this jabber about the "jews, jews, jews, jews, jews" - It's all of their fault. Cry Cry Cry. It's not the jews turning on your television, a jew doesn't sit behind you and make you watch it, make you feed your children GMO crap, or make you go out and blow all of your money on useless nonsense.
That's like saying you're not allowed to point out that Jews own the water supply because you turn the tap on.


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No more whining and complaining about the JEW, it's so childish to point and wag fingers. If you have a problem, do something about it, and don't just play the blame game or find the closest issue to social deconstruction and complain about it.
Without pointing out the Jewish problem, very few would have an idea about what the Jew does. You wouldn't be able to hear Holocaust denial on the streets of Paris.

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As a society, we've lost our scruples and our souls to the almighty dollar. I'm not going to blame that on anyone, we put ourselves here, but I'm going to make a change starting with myself - as every other person should do.
Church talk.

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Oh, and men have to find women that are desirable to them and what they find pleasing in a woman, just as much as a woman does. Otherwise it will end badly, two people have to attract and remain attractive by being who they are, not who someone wants them to be. We don't all like to play charades.
Amen.

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Old February 26th, 2014 #20
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Do you go out and shop at the local farmers market and buy produce, meats, dairy from the local White farmers who made it all on their own, and are most likely conservative? Who absolutely hate what the Gov't does with the farmers' subsidies, driving up prices and hurting the traditional farmer's property values?
Yes. Because I grew up on a farm and those things are available to me, and if they weren't - I would find a way to make them available. I'm also active in several groups that are fighting against monsters like Monsanto and the GMO seed which my family refuses to grow despite government throwbacks.

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